“Here was a flower (the daisy reflected) strangely like itself and yet utterly unlike itself too. Such a paradox has often been the basis for the most impassioned love.” ~ Thomas M. Disch, from The Brave Little Toaster
Questions from Flowers (found on tumblr):
- Daisy: How old were you when you had your first kiss? I was 12.
- Carnation: If I handed you a concert ticket right now, who would you want to be the performer? Believe it or not I would like it to be country singer Luke Bryan; I think he’d be great in concert. Second choice would be Alison Krauss.
- Jasmine: What color looks best on you? Red. Then black. Then purple.
- Foxglove: Name three facts about your family? First, we have Filipino blood. Second, my father was a guerilla during the second world war. Third, there is a strong strain of military service throughout.
- Allium: What’s the best thing you can cook? Brunswick Stew.
- Orange Blossom: If you could pick the gender and appearance of your child, would you? No. Are you crazy? Life should be full of happy surprises, your children most of all.
“Creating is living doubly. The groping, anxious quest of a Proust, his meticulous collecting of flowers, of wallpapers, and of anxieties, signifies nothing else.” ~ Albert Camus, from The Myth of Sisyphus and Other Essays
- Calla Lily: If you died right now, what song would you want to play at your funeral? “Where the River Meets the Sea,” and of course, “Amazing Grace” on bagpipes.
- Poinsettia: Favorite holiday dish? Cranberry Relish followed by Pecan Pie.
- Oxlip: Would you ever get into a long distance relationship? I have. They’re very hard.
- Primrose: Favorite kind of soup? Homemade beef vegetable soup.
- Daffodil: What’s the most thoughtful present you’ve ever received? Anytime I am given a book or a gift card to buy books, but thoughtful is not romantic, and the most romantic present I’ve ever received was a string of pearls from my husband when we were dating.
- Rose: Are you currently in love with someone? Yes, very much so.
“Yes, just like those flowers. There’s something strained, but there’s beauty in that. Something like that” ~ Koushun Takami, from Battle Royale
- Amsonia: Would you ever become a vegan? Probably not even though it would be better for me in some many ways.
- Peony: What’s your favorite hot beverage? It’s a tie between Hot Tea (preferably Darjeeling) and Southern Comfort served warm with honey and lemon.
- Tulip: For your birthday, what kind of cake do you ask for? I like apple pie, or if not, homemade cheesecake.
- Myrtle: Do you like going on airplanes? I used to, but lately I find them so cramped.
- Hibiscus: Did you ever play an instrument? If so what? Piano, classically trained for 14 years.
- Zinnia: Who was your best friend when you were six years old? Creighton Firth.
He knew the plants by name and took a few minutes with each of them: ageratum, coreopsis, echinacea, rudbeckia. The yarrow, he said, had rose-red flowers on two-foot stems. Achillea millefolium, the plant Achilles used to heal wounds.” ~ Frederick Weisel, from Teller
- Poppy: What color was your childhood home? Brick.
- Hydrangea: Starbucks order? Venti latte (no bells or whistles)
- Violet: Do you like where you’re from? Do you mean where I was born (yes), or my heritage (yes), or where I’m currently living? The answer to the last is probably sometimes. It’s a nice area, but it’s not where I want to spend my life.
- Locust: What was your favorite book as a child? A Secret Garden
- Rhododendron: What’s the scariest dream you’ve ever had? I have lots of scary dreams, usually involving some kind of killing.
- Queen Anne’s Lace: Would you rather carve pumpkins or wrap presents? Wrap presents.
Flowers are so inconsistent! But I was too young to know how to love her . . .” ~ Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, from The Little Prince
- Magnolia: Favorite kind of candy? It varies. Right now it’s Starburst berries. Last year it was gummi bears. A few years ago it was Twizzlers . . . so chewy stuff.
- Aster: Would you rather be cold or hot? Cold. You can always add more clothes or blankets.
- Marigold: Do you listen to what’s on the radio? Not usually.
- Heliconia: Do you like when it rains? Yes, if it’s storming with lightning. Just cold rain, not so much.
- Azalea: What’s a movie you cried while watching? So many: Return of the King is the first one that comes to mind. But I remember I wept during The English Patient.
- Dandelion: Do you think you’re important? Not nearly as important as I think I am.
Music by Dum Dum Girls, “Coming Down”
Found what I think are the breast feathers
of a flicker lying in the melting snow
in front of the house. Found a crow feather
in Bozeman one spring and have kept it
in a vase on top of the dresser. Yarrow grows
where my son planted a root last summer,
and hyssop seeds have sprouted
with the wildflowers. Found spearmint
growing under the outside faucet
and tiny blue snails in the fallen apples
and black and white hornets stumbling drunk
around the rotting apples in August. The columbine
had eight inches of new growth in January,
and two summers ago found a red-shafted flicker
lying in the alley behind my house
with grass in its throat and wasps
crawling in and out of its mouth.
Its wing feathers were dazzling
and I took them, buried its body
in tall weeds, saved the feathers
in checkbook boxes in the dresser
beside a Norwegian pewter cake server,
a twenty dollar bill, some old ribbons
and a flat rock from the Marias.
His mate remained in the neighborhood until fall,
and this February a pair or flickers returned
to eat last year’s sunflower seeds
at the side of the garage.
One spring, hundreds of crows filled a single tree,
their black wings shifting against dense bodies
and air, their voices calling across leaves
then reeling into space.
Saw flickers in the park last spring,
a male calling with such racket
my son covered his ears, and
from across the park, through twigs
and leaves pushing out from resinous shells,
a female approached, blended into bark
and clouds, and for an instant, opened to the sound.
~ Tami Haaland